It can be such a powerful technique of disconnecting from a dysfunctional relationship, event or situation….. a powerful technique that is available to us all. In this article we’re going to focus on cutting cords that were formed in a relationship but know that this information and technique can be applied to any event or situation that you’re involved in.

So, what are cords and how can they support us in disconnecting from what we don’t want so that we feel free to create an empowered, fulfilled, happy life? As you’re probably already aware, we are Beings of energy, everything in the Universe is energy. While we appear as solid matter, matter is energy that has slowed down its rate of vibration to a low enough frequency that it appears solid. Everything is this world is energy and has its own individual rate of vibration and frequency and its own individual energy signature. Take a block of ice for example. The vibration of that ice has had its vibrational frequency slowed down enough that it appears to be solid matter. Then, if we warm up that block of ice, the vibrational frequency raises and it turns into water. Warm the water enough and it turns into steam, an even higher vibrational frequency

What is an energy signature?

Your personal energy signature is comprised of all your thoughts, beliefs, emotions, experiences etc that you have ever had in this lifetime and is what makes you uniquely YOU. The energy field that surrounds you (often called the aura or subtle bodies) makes up your personal energy signature and when somebody else resonates with your energy signature/field (your beliefs, thoughts, emotions, experiences etc) then the connection begins between two people. Depending on the emotional depth of the relationship, energetic cords can develop. These energetic cords are found at our chakras (also called energy centers). Our chakras are energy vortexes (think of a swirling funnel) where energetic information is received and sent. We are sending and receiving information from our chakras all the time. Have you ever walked into a room or been around somebody and thought to yourself something such as “I don’t like the vibes I’m getting from this person” or “I walked in the room and immediately felt like jumping for joy!” or something similar? That is your chakras tuning into the energetic information they’re picking up from the room or the person and deciding if they resonate with it/them. If a connection is made, then energetic cords can start between the 2 people. If it becomes a friendship, intimate relationship or even a business relationship, then emotional attachments begin and the energetic cords become stronger and stronger between the 2 (or more) people.

However, when a relationship ends, the energetic cords are still there. You might have heard the saying ‘time heals’. While that’s true to the extent that as time passes, generally the emotional intensity dissipates, the cords can still be in place. That is, unless they are cut with focused intention. So, how does a person tell if they have energetic cords with another person, cords that are continuing to keep them stuck in a dysfunctional relationship with them? You’ll know the cords are still present when you obsess over the other person; when thoughts about them or the relationship keep rattling around in your mind; when you continue to feel devalued, worthless, not enough, or whatever it is for you whenever you think of them and the relationship; or simply can’t seem to get over somebody. If that’s the case, then you’ll need to cut the cords with your intention. I like to call on Archangel Michael and ask for his help with cutting cords. I’ll see the cords between myself and the other person connecting us at the levels of our chakras and then ask Michael to cut the cords. I either see Michael swoop down with his sword of Light and cut the cords or I have giant golden scissors that I use to cut cords. I/We continue to cut cords until I see and feel clear space between me and the other person. I know the cords are cut when I can think and feel clearly again without the other person coming into my mind and emotions. The other day I was cutting cords with another person and needed a little extra help so I took my hand and physically (energetically) pushed the person away from me. I saw them receding into the distance until they were a tiny speck and I could feel they had completely left my energy field and mind. A statement you could say is “Archangel Michael, cut any cords of fear from my solar plexus to anybody I’ve ever given my power away to.” You  can change the wording to whatever resonates with your unique situation.

Just as going to the gym has to be done on a consistent basis in order to see results, cutting cords may need to be done repeated times until the emotional connection has been cut for good. Depending on the intensity of the emotional connection, this may have to be done several times a day or several times a week. If the cords are not eventually removed and or the same dysfunctional patterns appear in another relationship, that means there is further inner work to be done; releasing and clearing out old, dis-empowering belief systems and patterns that no longer support who you’re becoming and how you’re choosing to live your life.

About Joy Baker

Joy excels at supporting and assisting individuals in getting unstuck and uncluttered so that they can live a more fulfilled and creative life. Since we’re rarely taught as children how to process and let go of emotions that are limiting us, those emotions can get stuck in our bodies at a cellular level. If you’ve ever gone through any trauma in your life such as a car accident, relationship break up, loved ones dying, loss of employment, physical, sexual or emotional abuse and more, chances are you haven’t known how to deal with the emotional aftermath of
those events. Those  feelings then become stored in your body. Once that happens, we develop attachments to those limiting feelings and (unconsciously) create scenarios in our lives that cause those feelings (such as anxiety, fear, shame, guilt, anger, overwhelm) to repeat. We become addicts; addicted to the very feelings that are limiting us. The first step to becoming Self Empowered is awareness. Once you become aware of what’s limiting you, then it can be released and cleared.
Having gone through 20 years of personal growth and delving deep within herself, Joy is aware of the courage it takes for a person to be honest with themselves and to allow for further awareness and forward momentum. She used to be extremely shy and, after having worked with horses for 25 years, found she related to horses much better than she did with people. In fact, she had no idea how to relate to people when she left the racetrack and not only had to overcome crippling shyness and go on a journey to discover who she was, she also had to learn how to communicate with her own species; Humans!
While it’s been a intense journey of Self discovery for Joy, it’s also been a very rewarding one. Since she was willing to go so deep into her emotional realm and release what was no longer working for her, she has developed a level of understanding and acceptance that allows her clients to feel supported and empowered. Whether it’s over the phone, Skype or in person, she creates an environment of trust and safety that encourages her clients to break through their self imposed limitations and supports them in recognizing their value and greatness.
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