I was just like you. Normally, I wouldnâ€™t say anything so presumptuous or arrogant, but I was. Not all of you, just the people reading this who hate themselves, who are depressed or anxious, who think life isnâ€™t worth living and there is no way it will get better. People who donâ€™t have any friends, who are being bullied, who donâ€™t have support at home, I was just like you at one time.
I donâ€™t know exactly how you are feeling. This kind of assumption would be insensitive, but I know how I felt, and I bet we have a lot in common. I often felt unlovable and confused.
Iâ€™m much older now. Age brings wisdom if you learn from your experiences and face your fears. I love being around young people, often more than adults. Their creativity, energy, new ideas, talents and way of viewing the world is inspiring. They fear what they donâ€™t know sometimes and think they should have all the answers. No one does. Learning is part of growing.
Iâ€™m not any smarter than any young person, but I do think I have learned some things that would benefit you, especially if you are struggling.
1. You might not actually want to die.
I really didnâ€™t want to die when I thought I couldnâ€™t continue on. I wanted to feel better. It took work, but it was possible and worth all the time and effort.
2. When you think no one cares, you arenâ€™t thinking hard enough. Â
If you were not here, you would be horribly missed.
3. High school ends, and real life begins. Â
You will meet people who arenâ€™t jerks. You canÂ make friends and find love. Iâ€™m not just saying that. I know from reunions and Facebook that we find our person, sometimes more than one, no matter what our social status in school was.
4. You are so much stronger than you think. Â
Everyone is afraid and insecure, even if they pretend not to be.
5. Most people have no idea how other people really feel about them.
They see our beauty, our talents and our heart much clearer than we see it ourselves.
Read more HERE
About the Author
Katie Beecher, MS, LPC is a Medical Intuitive, Licensed Professional Counselor and artist.Â I am have also worked as a Special Education teacher.Â My website is www.katiebeecher.com.Â My biggest fans are my husband, two amazing daughters and our two house bunnies, Mabel and Walter. I am writing a book about my recovery from an eating disorder, my life with a dysfunctional family and my life as a Medical Intuitive.