Sometimes you can love someone and they don’t love you back in the way that you would like.
You might feel a deep connection with them in your heart. You might have had dreams about them. You might feel you are meant to marry them and have children.
It can be painful to love someone and that love not be reciprocated, especially if you feel so much for that person.
It can be so painful sometimes that you might be tempted to close your heart and not feel it.
It can also be easy to feel rejected by the other person and spiral into feeling that you aren’t good enough. That if you were, they would love you back.
But this is not true.
Whenever you close your heart and stop loving, it’s YOU that loses.
To keep your heart open even when another person is loving you back, you must let go of the relationship that you think you should have with them. We sometimes have our own idea of how we think a relationship should be with another and we impose that onto them. This only creates suffering.
So stop projecting onto them and having an imaginary relationship with them in your mind.
It’s not loving to control and impose your idea of what you think the relationship should be onto someone else. It simply limits love.
Just because you meet someone and have a deep connection doesn’t automatically mean romance or whatever you make up in your mind.
Let go of the person and surrender the relationship beyond how you think it should be. Then you make yourself available for the highest expression that is meant to be between you.
If you keep your heart open and remain curious then the authentic relationship can blossom.
Real love allows for the highest good and is unconditional. Real love requires surrender, and when you surrender, you not only open yourself to miracles but you are truly free.
Surrender is the key and a major life lesson that we are here to learn.
Trust that what is meant for you will be YOURS. Nothing can change that.
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Kute Blackson is an utterly unique visionary in the world of human potential. Unlike those who promise to simply help people “get” what they want, Kute’s life work instead reveals to people what they have to give, by liberating who they are most truly and deeply. The focus: Freedom. Acclaimed worldwide for his life changing, one of a kind, transformational experiences, he is considered one of the leading voices in the fields of transformation and spirituality. Kute is an inspiring modern day spiritual teacher and a bold voice for a new generation.