Tamara Rant of Conscious Life News writes:Â
Iâ€™d like to start out by saying that I absolutely love people and I adore relationships of all kindsâ€¦romantic, friendship, family, work, etc. But that doesnâ€™t mean that itâ€™s always easy relating to other people, am I right? Iâ€™veÂ come to learn, though that even the feisty, difficult, â€śOh my freaking God I wanna rip my hair outâ€ť kind of relationships hold something dear to be cherished. The lessons we learn from our most trying times provided by our relationships, are what stretch and bend us, set our healthy limits and personal boundaries and no, thatâ€™s not a bad thing at all.
When we are being authentic in our personal boundaries, we treat ourselves in such a way that sets the standard for the rest of the world as well. So, thereâ€™s simply no room for â€śJoe Schmoeâ€ť to come prancing into your life treating you like a pail of garbage, because you simply donâ€™t allow it into your field of existence. Itâ€™s saying something is better or worse than, itâ€™s merely a recognition of a certain desired frequency, and they simply do not match up.
And this leads us to to expectations which Iâ€™ve written about before and gotten a lot of great feedback for, so Iâ€™d like to give it another go, but with a twist. This time, letâ€™s focus more on what we expect from OURSELVES rather than those around us.
In my previous article, What To Expect From You Everyday Expectations, I went into all of the various ways that we put our energy out across the realms of existence that we might not even be aware of. First off, you need to know that thereâ€™s multiple realms and while interconnected they all â€śmoveâ€ť and â€śactâ€ť on their own accord; with their own style and uniqueness.
The different realms are physical, mental, emotional, spiritual and etheric and I highly suggest reading that article before continuing on, but even without knowledge of the realms I bet youâ€™ll find a useful tip or two in the words beyondâ€¦
Image result for how to be there for yourself. Most often our relationship are bouts of give and take and usually roles are clearly defined. But if those roles are ever challenged by one party or if something tremendous shifts,etc. then relationships as a whole can be entirely redefined or sadly even end at a whimâ€™s notice. But alas, every relationship serves itâ€™s purpose, and even those we expect to last until our dying days often fizzle and fade, and in the end itâ€™s really up to each individual to determine the final destination of where that relationship status lands in their heart once the usual connection is broken.
If two conscious individuals unite in a relationship, changes are much better that if and when the union ends, the departure will not be quite as a dramatic as the typical relationship, because with awareness comes an understanding always of a purpose higher than ourselves and our emotional responses to any given moment in time. It also comes with the understanding of desires, motivations, the Ego, the self with a little s .vs a big S, etc. and if youâ€™re lucky a knowing that each person is THEIR OWN SOURCE! Therefore just as the union came together in love, so can each person allow such a respectful and honest, unattached letting go if and when the times comes to do so.
Sadly, so many relationships begin in a dazed and confused stupor of puppy love infatuation of what we want people to be. We refuse to foresee the flaws we know will eventually show themselves and temporarily convince ourselves these people are unwavering perfection, and we delight in the fact they think the same of us! Oh, what a high! 🙂 But when we instead really see people from the get-go for what they are and not what we want them to be nor what we can tell theyâ€™re trying to be, we will understand better that everyone is a mere traveler here, that everyone is still learning and growing and that while technically we all are perfect because we are of Divine Creation, we are here to experience the illusion of imperfection, so that we can expand in third-dimensional reality and live as conscious creators ourselves. So, itâ€™s wise when falling in love to simply not fall with blinders on.
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