Alatheia Luna of AwakeningPeople.com writes:
With some people, making friends is comparable to playing a¬†strategic chess game. ¬†The normal meet-and-greet, sit and eat rules don’t apply until you pass the first barrier:¬†shyness.‚ÄčEver wondered why the shy, reserved kids in class were always the least popular?
Perhaps even the most outcasted? ¬†The truth is, in the Western world,¬†quietness has never been seen as a virtue.
Instead, it’s perceived as a strange, unfriendly phenomena, and frequently misunderstood as being cold and aloof.¬† It seems that most people just don’t seem to be up to the challenge of befriending and gaining the trust of a shy introverted person.
Our world is about quick fixes, instant gratification and speedy convenience. The shy introvert doesn’t deliver that. ¬†But for those who have glimpsed the pearl inside the oyster, the shy introvert is the source of intrigue and fascination, but also frustration. ¬†How is it possible to¬†befriend¬†such an insular, secretive and quietly mysterious type?
‚ÄčBelow you will find some tips, tricks, and do’s and don’t’s from the perspective of a shy introvert.
Befriending the Shy Introvert¬†The shy introvert is typically a loyal, thoughtful and worthy friend. Whether you’re pursuing a friendship with them to either develop a romance or gain a companion there are a few things you should know first.
The shy introvert can be understood as a¬†highly reserved person¬†who shows signs of¬†sensitivity, cautiousness, distrust,¬†fear and timidity¬†in social situations. ¬†This can be for a number of reasons, for instance; upbringing, environment, culture, or genetic disposition. ¬†Yet it’s a great error to assume that because the shy introvert is not friendly, open, or willing to talk to you at length that they are:
1# ¬†Uninterested or indifferent.
2# ¬†Disliking of you.
3# ¬†Boring, dull, or rude.
In fact, many shy introverts harbour secret desires to¬†know¬†and¬†be known, yet¬†lack the confidence and skills¬†to do so. ¬†This is not to say that they don’t try. ¬†As a shy introvert in school I managed to befriend multiple shy people, including a painfully shy schizophrenic girl who barely moved or blinked when you talked to her, out of fear.
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About the Author
Aletheia Luna is the author of “Old Souls: The Sages and Mystics of Our World” and “Quiet Strength: Embracing, Empowering and Honoring Yourself as an Introvert” and is the cofounder, editor and author of popular self-discovery website¬†LonerWolf.com.¬† As a transformational mentor and holistic writer, she has helped to guide thousands of people all throughout the world on their paths of self-acceptance and wholeness.¬†
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