Why is it that many of us have difficulty manifesting our ideal relationship, and is there anything we can do about it?<\/p>\n
https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=RUKmq-yxMD0<\/p>\n
Sometimes a lack of clarity about exactly what we want from a relationship may be causing the problem.
\nHowever, when we DO know for sure what we want and feel that our ideal partner is already in our vortex, then WHY is he or she not then manifesting into our life??<\/p>\n
The first question we must ask ourselves is, \u201cDo we need more life experiences before the manifestation can appear?\u201d All which we want is in a \u2018high flying\u2019, non-resistant vibration, and when we are in alignment with this there is an open channel of communication and we should then be receiving inspiration, and realizing and witnessing the unfolding.<\/p>\n If this is NOT happening then it means that something OTHER than our vortex is dominating and influencing our thoughts on the subject.<\/p>\n A habit we humans have is to concentrate our thoughts on what has already manifested, on what\u00a0IS<\/em>, which in this case is the lack of a relationship. In a situation such as this, we are in conflict. On one hand, our Inner being is saying \u201cAll things are possible\u201d, yet reality is saying, \u201cExcept this!\u201d<\/p>\n When our beliefs are based on the present situation of lack then this OLD NEWS keeps us stuck and is consistently blocking the manifestation we so longingly desire. The problem here is that unless we begin to tell a different story from our current situation we are unable to move on. It is imperative that our new story starts from the inside, and firstly we must learn to find satisfaction where we already are. When we are in a relationship which we know is not right for us there are always some components present which we\u00a0do<\/em>\u00a0want. When we feel unsure what it is that we truly want our inner being would love to say to us:<\/p>\n i. You are decided In other words, you ARE ready, you just don\u2019t KNOW you\u2019re ready.<\/p>\n The advice we are offered by Abraham quite simply is to HAVE FUN and to know that it\u2019s really close. If someone were to ask us \u201cDid you meet that person yet?\u201d we can say \u201cHell no! I don\u2019t want to get there too quickly. I\u2019m having way too much fun along the way. The feeling of anticipation is what I\u2019m savouring the most.\u201d<\/p>\n The advice we are given may sound like a contradiction but in reality, it is not.<\/em><\/p>\n The Reality Is:<\/strong><\/p>\n If we are NOT in a hurry it will happen fast. Enjoy the journey, the delicious anticipation, the NOW, and the manifestation must then appear.<\/p>\n Our satisfaction is in alignment.<\/p>\n
\nIf the answer to this question is NO, then enough components are already there in our vortex; and as\u00a0Abraham<\/a>\u00a0puts it in the video, \u201cit is cooked and ready for delivery.\u201d<\/p>\nWhat is this other influence??<\/h4>\n
\nAs this is our predominant focus then the greater influence on our moment to moment thoughts is the\u00a0lack<\/em>\u00a0rather than what is in our vortex.<\/p>\nHow Can we turn this around??<\/h4>\n
\nOftentimes we even deliberately hold onto a thought which doesn\u2019t let us go where we want to go, almost in a kind of stubbornness or defiance.<\/p>\n
\nWe then say, \u201cI can\u2019t tell a story which isn\u2019t true as this is dishonest\u201d; yet Abraham assures us that unless we start to tell our story differently then nothing will change.
\nFar from being deceptive, this is WISE and far preferable and useful than continuing to regurgitate more of what is!<\/p>\nStarting from the inside<\/h4>\n
\nAll the fun is in the anticipation of what is realizing; it\u2019s the knowledge of what is already \u2019in our pipeline\u2019 and in the becoming of it!
\nIf we can but focus on the relationship which IS evolving rather than the one that \u2018isn\u2019t there\u2019, then we will be \u201cready to be ready\u201d and enjoy the anticipation.
\nWe must be satisfied with what is and eager for more.<\/p>\nRelationships which we know are not right for us<\/h4>\n
\nWhilst we can\u2019t turn a relationship we don\u2019t want into one we do want, if we look at the things in it which we do want with appreciation then we are moving forward and we will attract more of that which we do want. We will find that we inevitably then turn a corner and find more.<\/p>\nYour Inner Being Always Knows<\/h4>\n
\nii. You don\u2019t believe in your readiness.<\/p>\n
\nIf we ARE in a hurry we will slow it down because our hurry is \u2018out of whack\u2019.<\/p>\n