{"id":3399,"date":"2017-06-16T09:00:33","date_gmt":"2017-06-16T16:00:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/?p=3399"},"modified":"2017-12-12T20:46:03","modified_gmt":"2017-12-13T04:46:03","slug":"eliminate-3-words-without-regret","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/eliminate-3-words-without-regret\/","title":{"rendered":"Why You Need to Eliminate These 3 Words from Your Vocabulary"},"content":{"rendered":"
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TheMindUnleashed.com shares:<\/strong><\/p>\n

We\u2019ve all done it. We\u2019ve broken someone\u2019s heart. We\u2019ve spoken out of turn. We\u2019ve been selfish. We\u2019ve been insecure. We\u2019ve been jealous. We\u2019ve been impatient. The list of things we wish we could<\/em> have done differently would<\/em>\u00a0likely fill pages, but here\u2019s what happens when you eliminate 3 little words that infer regret, and replace them with something better.<\/p>\n

Should<\/h2>\n

Could<\/h2>\n

Would<\/h2>\n

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These are the words of regret. They keep us attached to the past, and prohibit forward movement. It isn\u2019t that some circumstances don\u2019t need to be grieved, but no matter what happens to us in this life, regret serves little purpose. Compassion for ourselves and others \u2013 gratitude for lessons learned \u2013 faith that we can and will choose differently in the future \u2013 these are the thoughts of champions.<\/p>\n

Pau McCartney of the Beatles once wrote an entire song about letting go of stuck emotions.<\/p>\n

\u201cLet it Be.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

It was penned when he finally let go of his pain after losing his mother, but it can be applied to any lose we\u2019ve suffered.<\/p>\n

Empowered people feel their pain, and the move on. They focus on the prize. They don\u2019t wallow in grief. They allow pain to move through them unimpeded, and then seize the moment to do exactly what they can RIGHT NOW to improve the situation.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, that\u2019s nothing more than allowing things to be as they are, but other times, if you get really honest with yourself, there is a list of about 10 things you CAN do, not that you should do. Instead of beating yourself up about what you could have done differently in the past \u2013 look at that list, and pick one thing to differently starting today.<\/p>\n

Should, Would and Could have no place for the realistic optimist. You know that you are going to make mistakes, and if you have amazing goals, you\u2019re going to make a lot of them. You allow those mistakes to happen, and then instead of \u201cshoulding all over yourself,\u201d<\/em> you\u00a0pick yourself\u00a0up, acknowledge that you\u00a0goofed, and look at the next<\/strong> right<\/strong> move<\/strong> to make in the moment<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Read more HERE<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Source:\u00a0http:\/\/themindunleashed.com\/2017\/06\/need-eliminate-3-words-vocabulary.html<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<\/article>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

TheMindUnleashed.com shares: We\u2019ve all done it. We\u2019ve broken someone\u2019s heart. We\u2019ve spoken out of turn. We\u2019ve been selfish. We\u2019ve been insecure. We\u2019ve been jealous. We\u2019ve been impatient. The list of things we wish we could have done differently would\u00a0likely fill pages, but here\u2019s what happens when you eliminate 3 little words that infer regret, and…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":3402,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"sfsi_plus_gutenberg_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_show_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_type":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_alignemt":"","sfsi_plus_gutenburg_max_per_row":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[14,15],"tags":[748,747],"class_list":["post-3399","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-consciousness","category-lifestyle","tag-power-vocabulary","tag-power-words"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3399","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/14"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3399"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3399\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3403,"href":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3399\/revisions\/3403"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3402"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3399"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3399"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3399"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}