{"id":3158,"date":"2017-05-10T09:00:16","date_gmt":"2017-05-10T16:00:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/?p=3158"},"modified":"2017-12-24T22:32:08","modified_gmt":"2017-12-25T06:32:08","slug":"10-lies-tell-everyday","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/10-lies-tell-everyday\/","title":{"rendered":"The 10 Lies We Tell Ourselves"},"content":{"rendered":"<article class=\"post tag-science\">\n<section class=\"post-content \">\n<div id=\"post-area\" class=\" fade-1\">\n<div id=\"content-area\" class=\"text \">\n<p><em>\u201cThe worst lies are the lies we tell ourselves. We live in denial of what we do, even what we think. We do this because we\u2019re afraid.We fear we will not find love, and when we find it we fear we\u2019ll lose it. We fear that if we don\u2019t have love we will be unhappy.\u201d<\/em><br \/>\n~ Richard Bach<\/p>\n<p>Most of us don\u2019t like liars. In fact, we often feel offended, even angry, when another person lies to us. But the truth is, we lie to ourselves every day. We engage in negative self talk and thought patterns that inhibit our personal growth and limit our ability to live a full and grounded life. We deserve to live life fully, to experience all of the joy and mystery that life has to offer. The first step towards this way of being is awareness. If we can become aware of the ways in which we\u00a0 lie ourselves, we can begin to filter our thoughts in a productive way. Here I have listed 10 lies that we need to stop telling ourselves in order to push past our own limitations and begin to enjoy the totality of living for which we are destined.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>1.\u00a0My past will always haunt me.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Correction- you\u2019re past\u00a0<i>can<\/i>\u00a0haunt you\u00a0<i>if\u00a0<\/i>you let it. But no, you\u2019re not doomed to spend the rest of your life desperately seeking love from anyone who will show it to you because of a parent who never did. The very thing you\u2019re doing at this moment \u2013 self-reflection, questioning old thought patterns \u2013 is a great step in the direction of change. Next time, before you indulge a groundless belief or fear, ask yourself, \u201cWhat is the source of my information?\u201d If the answer is- as it usually is- \u201cI thought it up,\u201d then you should dismiss the idea.\u00a0Remember, when you hold onto your history, you do so at the expense of your destiny.<\/p>\n<h3>2.\u00a0Success is the opposite of failure.<\/h3>\n<p>There are no failures, just results.\u00a0 Even if things don\u2019t unfold the way you expected, don\u2019t give up.\u00a0 Learn what you can and keep moving.<\/p>\n<p>Read more <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bodymindsoulspirit.com\/the-10-lies-we-tell-ourselves\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">HERE<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>About the Author<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This article was written by Whitney Anthony. Whitney, who loves singing, writing, and performing\u00a0is the author of the Vehicle of Wisdom blog. Although she has graduated from school, Whitney considers herself a life long student. She believes that as we learn, we teach \u2013 at our best we are all teachers. To learn more about Whitney visit her website www.<wbr \/>vehicleofwisdom.wordpress.com<\/p>\n<p>Source:\u00a0http:\/\/www.bodymindsoulspirit.com\/the-10-lies-we-tell-ourselves\/<\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<\/article>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cThe worst lies are the lies we tell ourselves. We live in denial of what we do, even what we think. We do this because we\u2019re afraid.We fear we will not find love, and when we find it we fear we\u2019ll lose it. We fear that if we don\u2019t have love we will be unhappy.\u201d&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":3186,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"sfsi_plus_gutenberg_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_show_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_type":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_alignemt":"","sfsi_plus_gutenburg_max_per_row":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[15,7],"tags":[678,679,104],"class_list":["post-3158","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lifestyle","category-personalgrowthandsuccess","tag-lies","tag-self-lies","tag-success"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3158","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/14"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3158"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3158\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4463,"href":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3158\/revisions\/4463"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3186"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3158"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3158"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.youwealthrevolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3158"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}